"The Bachelorette" Stars DeAnna Pappas And Jesse Csincsak Split

November 4, 2008 8:04 a.m. EST

Los Angeles, CA (CNS) - "The Bachelorette" DeAnna Pappas and her chosen fiancé Jesse Csincsak have split up barely four months after getting engaged on the season finale of the reality dating show.

Pappas chose Csincsak, a professional snowboarder, over account executive Jason Mesnick in fourth season of "The Bachelorette."

Csincsak revealed their decision in a video posted on their website, "It's our responsibility to tell you we're not together anymore."

He said that the bachelorette broke up with him two days ago, telling him, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you."

The snowboarder added, "She's a great person but she wasn't willing to try anymore... That's a lot to swallow no matter who you are when you're in love and you put yourself out there."

Pappas explained to In Touch Weekly that she realized that they are totally different people and "it wasn't going to work out."